We all have
friends. Some that are simply just those friends you say hi to in the hallways.
We also have those friends you use to be so close with, but then they either
moved away or you lost contact with so now you barely talk to one another.
There are also those kind of friends you always invite over for sleepovers, and
you go out with all the time, and you tell all your secrets and things too. But
not all of those friends are your actual friends, some may secretly hate you,
spread rumors about you, and/ or share your secrets.
Personally I
do not trust anyone. Why you might ask? Well you can never tell when someone is
a true friend, or if they’re just pretending to be. In my opinion true friends
must have these qualities: Honesty, Loyalty, and Trust. So far not many people
have showed those qualities. Of course I have a few friends who do, but I won’t
name them. Honestly I tell my friends some things, but I know that whatever I
may tell them might be spread. Of course I trust them enough not to, but I am
not dumb enough either to believe that one of my friends wont ever share a
secret of mine. I have trouble trusting people. That is why I think that
honesty, loyalty, and trustworthiness are the most valuable things in a
friendship. I value each and every one of my friendships. But personally I
don’t know if they value my friendship like I value theirs. Hopefully they do,
but you never know. Some people are quite two-faced and will pretend to be your
absolute best friend, but talk s… about you behind your back. I hate those
kinds of people. That is why I try to be completely honest with each and every one
of my friends. If I think something they’re doing is morally wrong I’ll tell
them my opinion, but its their choice to do anything about it.
You might
think I’m that depressing kid or teen or whatever that can’t trust anyone and
blah blah. But who cares, if you can’t handle the truth that some friends are
not completely true friends, then you need a reality check. If that sounds rude
to you, stop reading my blog. There are people who you think are loyal to you
and you have complete and utter trust in, but then you find out that they
simply are not who you thought they were. And that’s reality people. I’m not
being pessimistic about friends, I’m just sharing my own personal experience
Honesty is
super important to me, I can’t handle people who lie. Honesty is the most
important quality in a friend to me. I have absolutely no respect for people
who lie to me. Even if they lie about the smallest thing, I will lose seriously
all respect for you. No matter who you are, lie to me and I stop trusting you
and stop respecting you. Loyalty is the second most important thing to me in a
friendship. Loyalty is important to me because who wants a friend that is just
going to be your best friend one day then the next day ditch you and your
friends for some new people. If someone is not loyal to me that would mean that
they completely ignore me and their actual friends who they usually hang out
with daily and who have been there since the start, for some new friends and
basically never speak to you again. Someone who is not a loyal friend is
someone who stops hanging out with you, stops communicating with you, and
basically cuts you off from their life for who knows what reason? A friend that
is not loyal is one of those people who said they would be there for you until
the end, the person that starts talking s… about you behind your back. A person
who you use to think was your absolute best friend but just treats you like
your nothing anymore. That you never were friends before. A not loyal friend is
someone who leaves you, talks about you behind your back, lies to you, hopes
you fail, and just is someone you thought they would never become. And Trust,
trust is the third most important thing in a friendship. Without trust, how can
a friendship even strive? A friend is someone who helps you get through life
and if there even when you’re at your lowest. You must trust each other in
order to be true friends. Yet you must always be careful who you trust because
not everyone is a true friend. There are always those people who just wanna see
you crash and burn. Remember that.
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